When you finished that first date, was there
a sense of relief? That's ok. There is a lot
of tension with that first date what with
trying to make a good impression, not do anything
profoundly stupid and to start building a
relationship that will possibly lead to something
long lasting.
What, in the final analysis, was your goal
for that first date? Now a few may shoot their
hands into the air and shout, "I know,
I know. It was to get her into bed!"
Wrong. That may have been your goal but that
kind of short term thinking is going to lead
to a lot of first dates and very little more
than that. No, on that first date there is
a lot of testing to see if this gal is the
one you may want to date regularly or even
has the stuff to be "the one." But
that is getting ahead of yourself. For now
you strive to make that first date romantic,
relaxed, fun and non-threatening so your date
lets her beautiful personality shine through
and hopefully yours does to.
Now that the time has come for the second
date, your goals change as do your objectives.
So when you start to put together the best
second date ideas, what you want from this
date makes a difference. There is one outstanding
source for the very best second date ideas
that will be sure to be a big hit with this
girl you may want to date a lot. And it may
be a source that you may have overlooked.
That source is THE FIRST DATE! Hopefully
during that first outing, you started test
driving some ideas past her on things you
like to do. More importantly you asked her
questions about her interests, her passions
and the way she likes to spend time to find
out the things SHE likes to do on a second
date. And if you took note of those things,
you already will have a full agenda of ideas
for the second date, the third and maybe ten
more after that.
Good date ideas give you both lots of time
to get to know each other better. A trip to
a museum or the zoo is great for this because
you can wander from exhibit to exhibit and
stop and chat for as long as you want. She
might not remember the Rhino exhibit but she
will remember the time she spent with you
if you turn on the charm on the second date.
Don't be afraid to do something silly or
even childish on the second date. A trip to
play paintball or to the circus takes her
back to going to those things with her daddy
and lets her see the child in you. Other second
date ideas that often work well include, going
hiking if you both love the outdoors, attend
a concert of an artist you both love, go garage
sale shopping and buy each other inexpensive
but fun gifts or attend a junior high or elementary
school play, the least well produced the better.
If you end the second date at a ice crème
parlor laughing about the fun you had together
and sharing the first of many inside jokes
of your relationship, that date will be a
great next step in what may be a wonderful
romance. And if you drop her off and she just
wants to give you that first kiss, well then
enjoy every second of it because you deserve
it for planning a date she really enjoyed.
If you need top date ideas to wow your partner
and see that beautiful smile of hers light up
her face as she realises how romantic you are,
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