Cool Date Ideas


What makes one date cool and another, well, not so cool? It probably is a lot of factors. It isn't always driven by just "cool things" like seeing the most popular band or going to the "in" restaurant or art exhibit. What might be cool date ideas to you and your sweetheart might be very unique and personal to what you and she thinks is cool.

But one goal you always have with each and every date you have with your sweetheart is to make that date as cool as possible. So you want to find as many cool and fun date ideas as you can so every weekend you can do something new and interesting to keep your dating life fresh and full of fun.

There are lots of clever and creative ways to make your regular date with your special someone interesting and new each week. You don't always have to go to the mall or to the movieplex and sit like sardines in a can and watch the next big blockbuster snore fest from Hollywood. With a little creative thinking, you can come up with some cool date ideas that will get you moving and having fun with each other, not just sitting next to each other.

There are some very inexpensive and simple kinds of dates that many people overlook, probably because they are so simple. You can go to a park or public lake near town and rent a canoe and enjoy paddling around as the sun goes down. As long as you don't fall in, you can even do a bit of romancing out there on the water.

You can pitch a tent and camp together. Even if neither of you is a roughing it type, camping doesn't have to be that difficult and it can be a big adventure if you don't do it very much. And there is nothing like that campfire for snuggling and feeling romantic.

What really classifies something as one of those cool date ideas anyway? A lot of times it's when you hear about the date idea and you think it sounds really creative and interesting and so you think, "Cool, I want to try that." If you can tell it is something that will bring a smile to the face of your sweetheart, then you have yourself a great date concept.

But there are two things that make an idea for a new kind of date really cool and one is you and the other is her. Your new sweetheart wants to know you better. So if you have an activity that you love to do, she would consider it an honor to be invited to do that with you.

Maybe it's an evening with your church group or haunting the art galleries on the funky side of town. But the thing that makes that date cool is that you opened yourself up to her. And that is what dating is all about.

As you have time to date that girl you like so much, hopefully you have heard some of her stories from her childhood and gotten to know her personality some. You may find out that she just loves amateur theater or her favorite memory from childhood was going to the circus with her family.

As you get to know your lover more and more over time, store up those little tidbits about her and what kind of date would really touch her heart. Then you can do a bit of loving scheming and land those tickets to a high school play or find out when the circus is coming and get really great seats. When she squeals with delight when you show her the tickets, maybe at the beginning of a date she thought was going to be another boring movie, you will know for a fact that you are giving her the coolest date ever.

Check this out, know your date better and win your date's heart...

Dating Tip #1

Be Prepared - Some great dates are the ones that are spontaneous, but if you make every date spontaneous then things are bound to go wrong! Take the time to think through your date, plan for any problems like taking an umbrella with you if it is a long walk to the car and the sky looks bleak, or make sure that the restaurant you are going to does not have a hen night on when you are going for a quiet romantic meal...

Dating Tip #2

Chivalry Is A Must - If you are a man then you should be chivalrous and hold the door for your date, let her order first, pull out her chair - be a gentleman! If you are a woman then you have to let him! It is no wonder that the old fashioned manners and politeness are dying out when people are so stubborn they think it is wrong to let others hold the door or pay the bill!

Dating Tip #3

Make Eye Contact - Although some people feel uncomfortable with making eye contact, it is eye contact that shows you are interested in your date. People tend to keep eye contact when listening but not when talking to someone, try to make eye contact whenever possible (if you are interested in them that is!).

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